The last breath of Honesty

We often feel that we owe people a false representation of who we are just so that we are accepted in society. This idea of society and it's values is actually created by us, we are the society and whatever we do, it should not be cast out...especially if it is through honesty.

It is always said that the truth sets us free but in the world that we live in, it is compromised and the one who is the bearer of 'truth' is ussually verbally stoned and to save your life, you are forced to raise a white flag that does not really represent purity but an endangered value that is not stipulated but known from one community to another. What is deemed to be wrong is correct and what is correct is shuned to the edge of the cliff and the wrong makes its way to the thrown of civilisation.

Love, Caring, Support, Giving, Respect, Tolerance and our very own Ubuntu are trending as International values bit the base of all these values are found in Honesty. I'm not innocent nor always honest but I strive to treat others as well as I would urge them to treat me.

With this little speech, let's take responsibility and not watch as our youth die out without understanding that defiance to honesty means the death of UBUNTU.

Show Face

If you're wearing a disguise for too long, it will be difficult for the mirror to recognize you. At the end of theIf you're wearing a disguise for too long, it will be difficult for the mirror to recognize you. 

I come clean...

The matter always starts with me. I have failed to fulfill the dreams I had last year and at times it feels as if I have given up but that is not true. Reality is...time is a real demon if you do not know how to work around it. We always want to go through things as a people, but sometimes going around it is the better option. Some will argue and say "but going around something means you are running away or avoiding a situation", that's not always true. Going through something means that you do not have an alternative route you can use to see yourself on the other end. My problem has been time and how I manage it, but then I forgot that time is structured and will never ever in my wildest dreams accommodate me, I must find a way of working with time....work around it never want to go through.


As I ponder on ideas I had in the past year, the idea of being a leader and an inspirational being have been in vain as I bow down in defeat to time. I want to confess and come clean and state that the game looks easier when you are on the grand stands, when you are given the opportunity to sweat and create for your  own destiny (future), then comes along challenges and things that will occupy your thought pattern and end up going with the masses forgetting about the destiny that awaits for you patiently. I come clean and open my heart to myself and utter words of a fallen hero. It is sad that our creator trusts us with certain gifts and mandates us to do things that will better the lives of certain individuals in our space and yet we do not respect that.


Whenever I have a sudden urge to create something that will fuel my journey to the bosom of success, I relax and focus on things that are temporary. I could beat myself with a baseball bat right now because time has lapsed and I have little to show where as I could be showing something better and greater if I respected the amount of will power I had then.Hear me well, this is not the end, my dreams are not buried nor stolen because they are treasures embedded im my mind,body and soul. We always cry on things that did not materialize but then carrying on from where we left off becomes a real burden because the fire might be gone and it will need to be restarted for it to burn again. We confuse the fire that has been put out with the dream and vision that remains with you till you hit six feet under. The dream and vision is your match and fuel to make the fire burn again, let us remain in hope and believe in dreams and never let them go. Come clean to yourself, admitting is the first step to acceptance, once you have accepted then it becomes time to go back to the original plan and trace where you have gone wrong...never lose hope nor heart!

Take a look...

So it still amazes me how the future South Africa will be. I am stuck with individuals that believe in destroying as opposed to creating and I can't help but fear for generations to come. The school has been reduced to a mere social gathering place and parks are turned into brothels and pubs. This shift from "what used to be" normal to "not" normal poses a death trap to those who do not know what wave they are riding. The idea of Self Concept has become a burden in my thought of the future. If one does not have a clear picture of who they are to themselves first then to their peers and family then they will find themselves stuck in an era of Self Pity and Self Doubt because they were never fully awake to accept themselves and what their strengths are when the times allowed it. 

The fear of the future is that we do not know what it will bring but I am certain that challenges like poverty and unemployment won't be major economic issues that ought to be combated but be reduced to "being normal". If one starts to see themselves in a certain way before they admire and aknowledge moguls, then the journey to the future will prove to be an exciting one because everyone will be content with what they are, resulting in a joyful lifestyle that won't have room for political issues and economic depression. Once everyone decides to take themselves by the horn and steer themselves to the desired destiny then life under the sun should not be disfunctonal.


The desired future for me would be to live in a South Africa that has individuals that understand the History of this land and embrace it. The cry for "free education, free housing" e.t.c will have a negetive influence in the near future because they youth is nurtured on the mindset that demoralizes and burdens success because they are never taught about it and go on in life thinking that all they they do should be birthed from the Government.


Our Government is forced to produce finances and boost lifestyles like mantaince cases. This dependancy is erasing all the blood and tears shed by previous Apartheid activists. We claim to live in a South Africa that is alive with possibility but majority of our mindsets are consumed by laziness and sabotage. If Steve Biko could come back to life, he would ask for a ticket back to iternity immedietly....like,is it wrong to have a mindset that is filled with how you view yourself for the future and think of which gap you can fill with no hesitation. These little things that we overlook are the most deadliest ones. lets begin to see ourselves as something bigger and better than what is bigger and better now!

Life of an OVERCOMER

Today you can breath freely again after a series of turbulances in your space...be it work, family or friends but then do not forget, the life of an OVERCOMER is never easy. Life brings things to you that you fail to take on with the relevant effort and strength hence you find yourself back to your knees and weeping to your creator for answers. I have learned to realise that the power is in me and weeping all the time is basically a waste of time because whatever comes my way, I have been entrusted to RISE above it and be the victor no one thought I would be.


The life of an OVERCOMER is not easy but rather interesting, because it keeps you on your toes and never gives you enough time to escape.If you can't escape then you might aswell take control of the situation and be armed with the relevant tools that will see you triumph unexpectedly. Family can drain you to a point where you wish you never had one to begin with, but then we all know that emotions can't be compared to reality. Yesterday you felt as though you are the only one in this world that feels the pains and everyone else seems to be having a stupendous times of their lives...that's not true, some of us can hide our frustrations really well because we have mastered the lifestyle of an OVERCOMER.


An OVERCOMER does not complain and does not weep before the end knocks because it will never be the end. They relax and analyze the situation and then adjust their lives around the situation so that it does not affect them to a point where they lose balance and drift from the mark of victory. Victory is in you and yields to your demands, if you want it you just call it because it responds to those who know that they are victors. This is just to aknowledge the fact we are what we think we are...if you believe that you are an overcomer then you are one with no doubt in your mind, this is the only way that you will rise above the storm and see the light, that's what OVERCOMERS do!